The Confident Edge
You could have a more confident and determined young adult in 30 days!
Building confidence and tenacity in young adults to successfully navigate their own future. You will start to see results after the first two sessions!
CONFIDENCE COACHING FOR YOUNG ADULTS
What if you could give your young adult the confident edge up over their peers. Securing their future that is purposeful and successful. With peace of mind that if they fall, which is a part of life, they have the confidence and self-knowledge to pick themselves back up.
WHY IS LIFE COACHING BENEFICIAL FOR A YOUNG ADULT
Every young adult wants a successful career and future. They may be smart, talented and skilled but they don’t always see this about themself. Not truly, so therefore no one else sees their true potential. They struggle with articulating and sharing their thoughts, emotions and ideas. It’s in them but they can’t seem to get it out, so they hide out in their rooms for hours on end.
The more time passes the less confident your young adult becomes and the more daunting the task of managing the demands of life is. For them, it is easier to shut the world out because when asked questions, about what they want and where they see themselves headed, the answer is, “I don’t know!”
Working with a 1-on-1 life coach ensures that your child’s specifics needs are being met. Through in-depth sessions they gain guidance in helping them define their priorities and formulate their goals. They ascertain where their fears, self-doubts and anxieties stem from and how to push past them to step out their comfort zone. But most of all through their sessions they gain the soft skills and self-belief to know what they want, and to have the confidence and drive to go after it! They will also gain a well-rounded perspective to make smarter choices in their career, friendships, relationships, health and financial well-being.
There are various signs to look for that could indicate that your young adult needs external guidance. Your young adult is isolating themselves in their rooms for hours with little or no desire to communicate with family members. It’s a struggle for them to get out of bed. They are not socializing with friends like they used to. Or they struggle to move forward after a break-up. They are not exhibiting responsible behaviors or taking their career or studies seriously. They are not able to make decisions about what their next steps are and so are procrastinating with applications or interviews.
Self-doubt robs most of the opportunity to make dreams or goals a reality. To make a great impression in interviews, amongst colleagues, with a potential investor or in dating. It keeps them exactly where they are. It steals their drive and motivation and leads to procrastination and complacency.
Deep down your young adult consistently questions themselves, “Am I enough?” “Can I be more?” “Can I succeed?” “Do I deserve more?’ “Will they like me?” Self-doubt can be irradicated and should never stop your child from having the confidence to go after all that they want.
Nobody should have the voices of the past dictate their future. No one should have to live with imposter syndrome where to the outside world it appears like they are confident but deep down they have feelings of unworthiness.
Through my life coaching practices I have helped many young people to see their true value and go on to live their best lives with a conviction that they can overcome any challenge.
- From failing exams to becoming a doctor,
- From letting go of a toxic relationship to finding herself again,
- From being in depression and not wanting to get out of bed to completing their masters and finding work experience
- From struggling with time management and procrastination when being a part of the family business to becoming a contributing member who is seen for their unique skills set.
- From putting their awesome side hustle on the backburner for years to now having left their full time position to become a fully accomplished entrepreneur.
I want you to think back to your young adult years. How daunting it was making all these massive life decisions with no clear guidance and direction of whether you were on the right path or not. Did you listen to your parents advice? Now imagine if you could have had an independent personalized life coach guiding, encouraging and invested in helping you reach your true potential, what more could you have achieved?
As a parent I too am aware of how much I want my kids to thrive. So at every opportunity I ‘life coach’ them trying to impart as many pearls of wisdom that I can so they always believe in themselves. But of course, like you feel I’m sure, I’m met with resistance and my words carry no weight. But should a teacher or coach say the exact same thing to them, it’s somehow more valuable and the advice heeded.
Sometimes, parents find it hard to offer advice without being emotional. You love your child so much and you want the best for them and for them to be happy, that it’s hard not to be emotional. A life coach for young adults provides a necessary objective and an unbiased perspective, allowing them to completely open up and share their deepest insecurities free from judgement.
Every session is designed to help your child uncover something new about themselves. It is structured and formulated to help them determine what they want to achieve and to show them how their everyday choices and priorities take them towards or away from their goal achievement. They learn about their strengths and weaknesses and which thoughts are sabotaging their levels of success and happiness. They gain a new thought provoking perspective after every session.
The mind is incredibly powerful and determines all that we experience in life or not! A minimum of 95% of my clients respond with the same answer to this question that I ask them. “What is possible for you to accomplish?” Their answer is almost always, “Anything I put my mind to!”
Our mind is programmed over years to get us to this point of thought. Nothing happens overnight. Your beliefs, fears and self-doubts are deep-seated, created by every negative experience or encounter you have had in the past.
To change, takes time and understanding and this can not be achieved in an hour. It is a journey! One that will continue even after your child gains the knowledge imparted through this program. They will be in a position to apply their learnings to every challenge they face in the future and learn something even more profound about themselves.
TESTIMONIALS
I went to Trisha with a negative mindset and left her with a whole new perspective on life. Her lessons that she taught me through this journey of personal development has allowed me to find my true self and become a stronger person that my younger self can look up to as well improved my self-worth and become more confident in myself. Trisha was able to help me look forward to my future and go into everyday with with a positive mindset. Without her life lessons, I would not have the capabilities to plan and look forward the future that i’ve always dreamed of.
Lamees – 20 years old at University
Thank you so much for coming to Durban Girls’ College to speak to our parents at our Muffin Morning and to our High School pupils. Judging from the many and varied questions the parents asked you at the end of your presentation the parents found your presentation informative and practical. Your approach was friendly yet professional resulting in the parents feeling comfortable and confident enough to ask you for advice which they respected and found helpful. Parenting in 2023 is challenging as they strive to find the balance between listening to what their teenager wants and enforcing what they believe is best for their child. Parents left the presentation with workable solutions and the comfort that they are not alone in the issues they are dealing with in their homes.
Your motivational talk to our pupils has sown seeds in their young minds. We trust that each young person who heard you will take your advice to heart and strive to be the best versions of themselves. In a short time, the audience warmed to you and embraced your inspiring message that each one has the power within them to live their lives intentionally and purposefully. This is in line with our school’s vision to produce young women of significance who will make a meaningful contribution to their communities and society at large.
We look forward to welcoming you back to DGC in the future.
Warm regards
Taylor
Tracy Taylor
When I came to True North Life Coaching I was confused about my career, lost and overwhelmed with negative emotions and thoughts, I felt like every aspect of my life was spiraling out of control and that life was just happening to me. I did not have direction, determination and self-worth. Slowly through my journey with Trisha, I learned how to be my very own life coach, how to manage my negative thoughts and how to build a deep sense of self-worth and confidence. She, so carefully, equipped me with the right tools to build a stronger, resilient and bolder version of myself. This journey is truly transformative. I am now in control of my life, emotions, relationships, career path and thoughts and taking action on making my goals a success! I am now building stronger, positive beliefs that are serving me. You will come out of this coaching with a renewed outlook on your life and a deep sense of knowing who you are. This is a worthy investment that I would recommend to anyone who wants to be a higher version of themselves.
There comes a time when you realise that you as a parent can only do so much for your child, AND you need help…or you going to lose your relationship with your child by pushing too much…….. That is when I turned to Trisha…This allowed me to take a step back from the situation giving her the space to deal with my daughter professionally.. Trisha has given her the skills and tools to face life and deal with its challenges in any kind of situation….be it work…relationships…friends ..family…
It was a difficult 14 sessions as she had to regress in her life journey and face her failures and disappointments in order to heal and move past it. There were time when she wanted to quit but with Trisha’s patience and intuition and careful guidance …she got through. A year down the line, she was faced with a situation and she told me, “Mummy all I could hear was Trisha’s voice in my head and I was able to control my feelings and emotions.”
Going to Trisha at any stage in your life is beneficial …but it is definitely an individual’s choice and they must be ready to receive the guidance and put what she advises into practice.